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Anyone else not taken seriously when you tell ppl In your family you have Pf?

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Anyone else not taken seriously when you tell ppl In your family you have Pf? Mine doesn’t seem to care. I even go to physio and seen the doctor and also have a heel spur.

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Community comment#1

Yes they’re like just put some pain patches on your feet. You’ll be fine. 🙄

Community comment#2

Often people dont understand how truly painful it is especially when you are brave

Community comment#3

Yep. My relatives think I'm milking it or something. They're like "are you STILL in pain?" Yes. It hurts every single day. Ugh

Community comment#4

Yup until it happens to them

Community comment#5

100% true

Community comment#6

People all have their own problems and issues to deal with. It’s up to you to manage your feet problems.

Community comment#7

Mostly work, they don’t understand the pain I feel, they aren’t in my body. After 12 hours having it bad in both feet for 5 years, started while working there, never had in the past and did construction for 25 years, I hobble out of work. Compassion? No such thing as

Community comment#8

Other people just dont get it. Unless you've had it yourself you just dont understand how hard it is .

Community comment#9

Yes happens to me too sometimes. They don't believe his troublesome is it for us to do some basic stuff

Community comment#10

So explain it- until I had PF I didn’t know what it was and how hard it can make life.

I dealt with the same thing but on a vechicle assembly line. Went on for 2 years in my left foot then went to my right foot also..total of 5 years before I got treatment bc their Insurance was horrible

I have other issues in my legs besides the plantar fasciitis in 1 foot. I honestly feel for you because I cannot even imagine having it in both feet. I really can’t. I don’t know how you do it. I hope you find something that gives you some relief soon.

I’ve tried multiple forms of treatment at multiple podiatrist, doctors, therapists etc, no good. My insurance pretty much sucks, lol

Community comment#20

I am a nurse, working on my feet all shift. The doctors don't want to put me on sick leave

Community comment#21

I think it because they can't see it .

Community comment#22

True

Community comment#23

Most definitely. They can't understand the intense pain because they have not experienced it. Tonight was a good example. Daughter bought a house. Needs some repairs. Discussing the small lounge. She's thinking no carpet. I said carpet will be better for your feet. ( she stands on her feet all day ). She says " God mum do you have to" ) I say " yes I do as I would hate to see this happen to you. All family present sigh!

Community comment#24

No one takes me seriously. I have an mri with a stress fracture a tear and trapped nerve. They say things like their feet hurt too. I have been teying to limit my steps and ask for for help and everyone just treats me like I am a bother. It is very frustrating and isolating to offer this much and have no real support from loved ones.

Community comment#25

Unless a person has actually experienced how excruciating this condition is I am convinced they'll never understand what a nightmare this is.

Community comment#26

Yeah. No one understands how horrific and painful PF is unless they’ve had it themselves.

Community comment#27

Yes. I think it’s because they don’t understand the excruciating pain. I have a friend who has neuropathy who tells me it’s the same. I’ve had neuropathy too, and it’s not fun, but it’s not the same as PF. I think they think I’m being a drama queen. I have endured a lot of pain in my life. I am recovering from four broken ribs and I have bad knees. Plantar fasciitis is hard on all of that stuff in addition to the extreme foot pain. It took me two months or more to go to the doctor because I thought I could work through this by myself. I am now in PT/sports medicine approach. In addition to all my home therapies that I’m doing to get through this, including of course the Epsom salt baths which I do believe have helped. I’m starting to get back to walking a reasonable amount every day so I’m encouraged but it’s not a straight path. I keep having setbacks. I’m going two steps forward, but one step back.

Community comment#28

People definitely dont realize how painful and life changing it can be. 10 years and I still struggle

Community comment#29

I’ve been dealing with PF for a month now went to podiatrist he gave me a splint I don’t use it not comfortable. Also prescribed a cream which cost 58$ seems to help a little also I’ve bought dr scholl inserts help about 2 hours as I’m on my feet 7 hrs a day 4 days a week. Needless to say I spent some money! Maybe getting a cortisone shot the 22 nd see how things go til then

I don’t see how extra support can make it worse. It is trial and error till you get it right. It takes a bit of effort.

MagentaSeal3179 I can understand it making it worst. I tried the koprez sleeve, made the pain on outside of my foot worst. Certain insoles are too much arch support and where my heel/arch is always swollen extra support is not comfortable.

It is hard to find what works for you sometimes. I know some of the exercises that were recommended in regular PT. Do not work for me. They hurt it worse. I do have exercises that I use but not the ones against the wall or the ones you do on the stairs. They seem to hurt me worse so I understand what you’re saying. Have you thought about going to physical therapy and asking them to do a sports medicine approach to help strengthen your supporting muscles? Somebody on this site also recommended when you step start with the heel and roll to the ball of your foot. She said it seems counterintuitive, but I think that has also helped me even though it’s painful to do that. Epsom salt foot baths for 20 to 30 minutes one to two times a day have also help me some. If you do that, be consistent for a week or two, and then if it doesn’t help, at least you tried it.

had for 5 years both feet, wasted many thousands, it’s just the beginning. Maybe yours isn’t too bad though and can be caught early

Community comment#36

Does not matter which problem we have. Most won't understand and don't know the pain we have. Take a couple of Tylenol and you will be fine. I am guilty until I got problems, now I can relate knowing the pain. I am just starting this journey after getting diagnosed. Now I can shrug it off as I know others will never understand.

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